Sunday 4 July 2010

Sexual Therapy: A Condition For `Spiritual Solution’

by Benson Agoha


“When people show you who they are, believe them” – {{Maya Angelou}}


When my Twitter follower and fellow Blogger wrote `whom should I sleep with to become the Blogger of Note?`, we thought he was insane. But he had his reason. Implied in that lack of recognition was that his contributions, over the years, were still not considered worthy by his Host. He had been blogging, he said, for over seven years and never been flagged as a `Blogger of Note’ despite the huge traffic to his site. He was expectedly concerned and prepared to do anything to get up the ladder. He was luckier. A week later, without condition, his blog was flagged and he was declared a “BLOGGER OF NOTE”.

So have you ever been asked to sleep with a man or woman to get what you want? Did you do it? What did it result in?

So many of us have not been as lucky as my Twitter friend who did not have to sleep with anyone. But for some of us, this is a tough condition to struggle over, in order to get what we want. For the more promiscuous rest, it is an easy and coveted one. But as rabid as our sexual desires have become, it has immense spiritual connotations. Which is why many spiritualists take advantage and anchor `their solution’ to your sexual life. So when next a spiritualists instructs you to sleep with a person in order to get what you want, first ask youself `at what cost'?

My research reveals that sexual therapy as a condition for spiritual solution works. But according to one christian source, it is demonic. And although my source would not explain why, he managed to elicit another curiosity in me, the desire to know just how close Demonism is to Divinity?

Sex symbolizes your house of marriage. And if surrendered to an authority other than the divine, it has the tendency to skew the direction of your life and the life of your future generation yet unborn.

Two major concerns of an average individual are his career (or house of money) and family (or house of marriage). There are not many people who are fortunate to have both sides balanced. Spiritualists offer balancing solutions. Spiritual terrorists offer a trade off between the two. Would you trade one for the other? Which one would you readily trade for the other? Often times, prayer is a remarkable key, but then again, through which medium would you offer your service?


Sexual Pollution and our House of Marriage:
Our house of marriage affects our roots and that of our future generations. A polluted house of marriage generates polluted posterity, fraught with corruption, sexual immorality, theft, lies, disobedience and indeed all vices. A polluted root can stagnate a family or generation and deny them `light’. A polluted root is an abomination unto the Most High and actually angers God. It is the rabid pollution of Sodom and Gomorrah that earned the city such horrible destruction.

When we set the wrong values for ourselves or children, we become polluted in thought and action. Lot set the wrong values for himself and then asked Abraham for his share of their wealth so that they can go their separate ways. The same wrong values led him straight to the City of Sodom and Gomorrah and got him into trouble after trouble; for which Abraham still had to rush to him to free him.

He inculcated these same wrong values into his family (disobedience), which made his wife to look back when clearly instructed never to do so. With his wife turned into a pillar of salt, and Lot finding himself the only one stuck with his own daughters, the same pollution made his daughters come up with the idea of raising children through their own father. The Bible wrote that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. By their actions did Lot's daughters fear God?

Spirit of Discernment:
To discern is to weigh critically or to look at an issue thoroughly and understand what is at stake. Discernment enables the correct separation to be made concerning an issue. Pray for the spirit of discernment, because this helps you to understand who people are and what they are up to; and actually capable of. People’s behaviors tell a lot about whom they are and what they can do. So when they show you who they are, it is advisable to believe them!

Dreams and Reality:
Throughout recorded history, accounts abound of people receiving Divine messages through dreams. The Holy Bible is replete with these and so are many other Spiritual Books. But not all dreams are Divine. Advanced Spiritualists are very much capable of transmitting messages through our dreams and making it look real. They then urge you to relate to the order of the universe. When a person is under spiritual operation or suppression, he tends to dream a lot.

To separate facts from fiction under this situation requires spirit of discernment, without which you will be under a lot of illusion. And although an advanced spiritualist can authorize the dreams he projects to you and make it happen, this still does not make it the real deal. Spiritualists tell a lot of lies, more so if they see that you have begun to enjoy what you see, so ensure that you weigh those dreams and sift the chaff from the wheat.

One good principle would be that if you are not sure, simply make up your mind to do the right thing. Carry out some simple checks: Is it right to sleep with a person just to get what you want? Is it right to sleep with that person because it helps you to cut corners? If that person was a mad decrepit harlot, would you still sleep with her in order to get what you want? Would you kill anyone in order to get what you want? If you are asked to kill your mother, or sister, would you accept it because you see a solution to your problem around the corner?

Would the Spiritualist be willing to enjoy a little publicity? If he was proud of what he does, would he prefer to remain in hiding? A Doctor doing what he knows in the right way would not mind a little publicity because he is doing the right thing - as society wants and expects it. So if that spiritualist is not proud of his work, it is not worth buying.

Developing a sound moral value helps you overcome some of the pressures of spiritual suppression. And the more you chose to continue on the right path, the more the spiritualist gets frustrated and unable to implement their plans. Victory belongs to the brave and upright.

UNMASKED welcomes your view!

Write me through my email: benson.agoha@gmail.com. Thank you!

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